A Love Letter
from One Wife to Another...
Dear Wifey,
I know you love being a wife.
And, you're a good wife.
But now that you're a busy wife who is past the honeymoon stage, struggling with balance, and living with your spouse like roommates sharing space, kids, and bills with little emotional of physical connection, being a good wife is not good enough!
My desire is for you to be a happy wife.
Anything less than that is keeping you from living your best wife life.
Just because your spouse is coming home every night, it doesn't mean that you should just be content with that.
So, stop settling for a dysfunctional relationship (that you're modeling in front of your kids), when you know deep down inside you desire a thriving marriage that is overflowing with affection and connection.
The reality is that being a wife (and mom) is a very big job!
You're cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids and the house stuff. And as soon as you check off 3 things off your to-do list, 5 more things get added back on. 🤦🏽♀️
You're struggling to balance it all and keep a smile on your face, because deep down inside, you're feeling:
- Discouraged because you feel like the things that are important to you doesn't matter (and you're not getting the support you really need)
- Disappointed because you feel like you're talking to a brick wall and are often misunderstood (and there are too many heated arguments and silent treatments)
- Disconnected because you're co-existing, living like roommates (instead of lovemates), just sharing space, kids, and bills with little physical or emotional connection
Let's face it...your wife life has not panned out exactly how you had imagined and you're too embarrassed to admit it.
All hope is not lost (so don't give up).
You're not alone. In fact, give yourself a pat on the back because (unlike your best girlfriends who are secretly suffering in silence) you're brave enough to stand in your truth 💯
Wifey, I know how you feel. I used to feel the same way. And, my marriage had become blah and boring.
Now, I've become a much happier wife and I want that for you too.
I teach wives how to prioritize your self-care, communicate more effectively, and achieve greater intimacy so you go from being a good wife and become a happy wife.
Don't you want to feel more loved, heard, and appreciated in your marriage?
Wouldn't that give you the desires of your heart?
So, if you're ready to elevate your wife life, give yourself permission to let me help you.
Coaching & Training Program
This 6-month comprehensive online program for wives (and wives-to-be) includes:
- Training on my DNA of a Happy Wife® Protocol:
- Break the generational cycle of dysfunctional marriages
- Reduce your headache and your heartache so you don't lose your mind or your marriage in the process
- Take care of the woman in you so you don't lose yourself and get the support you need
- Get clarity on how to speak your truth (in a way in which he really hears you)
- Get the courage to cool down heated arguments and maintain your peace of mind
- Get the confidence to create emotional and physical intimacy and grow closer to your spouse
- Vow 1: Prioritize Your Self-Care
- Vow 2: Establish Your Expectations
- Vow 3: Fine-Tune Your Friendship
- Vow 4: Communicate for Deeper Connection
- Vow 5: Fix the Friction
- Vow 6: Tighten the Trust
- Vow 7: Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Vow 8: Finesse Your Finances
- LoversBond Hub where you'll get your VIP Plus login information and virtual access to the materials
- Live Q&A Sessions for laser-focused coaching on the spot to help you with your specific situation
- On-Demand Recordings of all sessions to watch (and re-watch) at your convenience (so no worries if you miss a live session)
- Pre- and Post-Assessment to assess your Happy Wife Proficiency
- LoveWork Exercises complete with strategies you will implement immediately to help you get the results you're looking for
- LoversBond® Library, a curated list of recommended books to read for deeper learning and extra reinforcement
- Happy Wife Collective, access to a community of like-minded wives to share your success, challenges, and insights so you can thrive as a happy wife in a happy marriage
- LoversBond® Journal, to capture your notes, your wins, your lessons learned, and your memories
Plus, depending upon when you enroll, you may be eligible for these fast-action bonuses!
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 1: One-on-One Private Coaching Session
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 2: Wifekit filled with self-care goodies, conversation starters, and intimacy igniters
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 3: One regular ticket to the next DNA of a Happy Wife® Workshop
DNA of a Happy Wife® Protocol
This is how you elevate your wife life!
SELF-CARE
You make time for self-care. You take care of the woman in you so you don’t lose yourself. You set boundaries for yourself without feeling guilty about it. You're less stressed and full of excitement and fun to be around.
COMMUNICATION
You can initiate and handle tough conversations in a way that brings love and understanding to the table. You can speak your truth so your point is being made, without all the drama.
SEX
You express your sexuality in a way that fulfills you. You are open to trying new things to spice things up in the bedroom so that you are sexually satisfied.
FRIENDSHIP
Not only do you love your spouse, you also really like them because you have a meaningful friendship. You like spending quality time together that brings you closer together.
CONFLICT
You have peace of mind. When discussions turn into arguments, you fight fair. Handling disagreements properly instead of engaging in heated arguments and silent treatments helps you diffuse a sticky situation.
FINANCES
No more arguing about money! You have regular money meetings that guide you to create financial opportunities for debt elimination and building wealth.
TRUST
You feel safe and secure. You have the freedom to share your innermost thoughts and feelings. You don't have trust issues and can forgive (even when it hurts) so you can free yourself from past hurts.
EXPECTATIONS
You communicate your expectations so there's no misunderstandings. You hold firm to the things that matter the most. You are not trying to handle it all and you ask for help so you're not constantly in overwhelm.
Once you complete this comprehensive wife program, you will be able to say that you have the DNA of a Happy Wife®
How else will this program help you?
The DNA of a Happy Wife® Coaching & Training Program is perfect for you if...
You had a vision for your life and you're not living your best wife life.
You have not taken a comprehensive pre-marital class and you need to learn the best husband hacks to help you elevate your wife life.
You are married to a hubby who is a complete handful and you need some tips to keep from going off on him.
You have unresolved issues and past hurts you can't seem to move past and you've been hoping and praying that things would get better (and it hasn't yet).
You've been too busy to take pour into you as a woman and you've been unable to consistently tap into your full potential.
You have not been influenced by successful and happy wives that you could learn from; so you missed out on learning key strategies that could help you define your own role as a wife.
Whether you can relate to just one scenario or all of them, you're not alone and there's nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of.
It's about owning your truth, believing that better is possible, and taking intentional action steps to change the trajectory of your life.
If you are willing to do your part to improve your situation, why wait another day?
The happy wife life can be yours and you can leave all of those scenarios behind!
What will you discover in the
DNA of a Happy Wife® program?
Vow 1:
Prioritize Your Self-Care
Wife Code:
LoveWork Exercises:
- Personal Stress Profile
- Balance Prioritizer
Vow 2:
Manage The Expectations
Wife Code:
- Discover the 7 false expectations that will ruin any marriage.
- Reconcile your roles and responsibilities so you get the support you need.
- Communicate your expectations in a way in which your spouse is receptive and willing to do more.
LoveWork Exercises:
- Roles & Responsibilities
- LoversBond Guide to ManUp Your Marriage
Vow 3:
Fine-Tune Your Friendship
Wife Code:
- Identify the 5 types of friends you need to be so your spouse not just loves you, but really likes you too.
- Redefine what “quality time” is and what it isn’t, so you get more of what you want.
- Discover how to grow closer to your spouse while maintaining your individuality as a woman.
LoveWork Exercises:
- LoversBond Guide to TurnUp Your Marriage
- Passion Project
Vow 4:
Communicate for Deeper Connection
Wife Code:
- Discover the 4 types of conversational starters that will give you the courage to express your thoughts and feelings.
- Beware of the types of words that cause conversational chaos.
- Pinpoint what to say, when to say it, and how to say it so you speak your truth with clarity.
LoveWork Exercises:
- Conversation Starters
- Resolve to Resolve
Vow 5:
Fix the Friction
Wife Code:
- Argue in a clean way, without hitting below the belt.
- Discover the 10 commandments to calm the conflict.
- Deescalate the situation and restore your peace of mind.
LoveWork Exercises:
- Fight Fair Formula
- Friction Fixer
Vow 6:
Spice Up Your Sex Life
Wife Code:
- (Re)Define sex for yourself and your marriage.
- Discover the most common sexual desires and sexual distractors.
- Introduce foreplay and live out a sexually-fulfilling and orgasmic life
LoveWork Exercises:
- Sex Temperature Check
- Intimacy Expressor
Vow 7:
Trigger Two-Way Trust
Wife Code:
- Understand the #1 biggest trust builder.
- Discover the adulterer’s mindset and ways to minimize the risk of extramarital affairs.
- Maintain and rebuild trust (even after the discovery of an affair).
LoveWork Exercises:
- Compromised Trust Remedy
- Infidelity Index
Vow 8:
Finesse Your Finances
Wife Code:
- Reconcile what money means to you and what it means to your spouse.
- How to have money meetings so you can become a power couple.
- Manage the dynamics that change when the wife is the breadwinner.
LoveWork Exercises:
- The Meaning of Money
- Money Matters Worksheet
You have more influence over your spouse and your marriage than you think you do
In this program, you'll learn the tools and techniques that no one has told you. Don't worry, I'll fill in the blanks for you. It's not your fault that you don't know. Just know that you have wife superpowers and you're likely not using them to your advantage. Get into action and trust the process!
Aren't you ready to elevate your wife life?
Find everything you need to get the DNA of a Happy Wife® is inside.....
The LoversBond Hub
To access this 6-month coaching and training program, you will receive a login and password to the LoversBond Hub. This is where you’ll gain access to the Love Lessons, the Pre- and Post-Assessment, Wifing Made Easy Framework, the LoveWork Exercises, the LoversBond® Library, and so much more.
LIVE ONLINE SESSIONS
Attend live online training sessions via Zoom (a free downloadable app). Live sessions will be every other Wednesday at 8pm ET. Remember, if you can't make a session, no worries, all sessions are recorded and you can watch the replay.
ACCESS TO RECORDINGS
All sessions are recorded. Rest assured that you won't miss a thing! So no need to stress if you miss a session. Rewatch the training sessions at anytime you need to hear the strategies again and for extra support.
Question & Answer
Ask questions and get feedback to help you for your specific situation. Get laser-focused coaching right there on the spot.
LOVEWORK EXERCISES
Assignments are designed to help drive the results you’re looking for. And guess what wifey, some assignments will be turned in for feedback, so I can make sure you're on the right track.
HAPPY WIFE COLLECTIVE
You are not alone. You will be inspired, supported and encouraged by a community of like-minded wives. It is a phenomenal feeling to know that there are other like-minded wives who are also routing for your success.
PRE- AND POST-ASSESSMENT
You will take a self-assessment, at the beginning of the program and a post-assessment at the end of the program to assess your Happy Wife Proficiency. This assessment will allow you to see where you are and how far you will have come once the program is complete. You will have so much be proud of!
The Love It or Leave It Guarantee
If you determine that you don’t want to implement the strategies so you can have the DNA of a Happy Wife®, you can request a refund within 30 days.
Hi Wifey, I’m Teleshia!
I am Teleshia Delmar, the Wives Confidante and I am a happy wife!
I can say that now but I couldn't say that back then. After 20 years of marriage, I've learned a lot about what it takes to be a happy wife.
I wanted so bad to be successful as a wife but I got tired of trying to balance it all and be his everything and ended up being nothing for me. And when I would try to talk to him about my feelings, somehow it was my fault and we ended up in an argument. 🤦🏽♀️
I was not ok with this. I knew things could be better. I had to do what it takes to find my own happiness!
I needed a 3rd party independent person, someone to help me work on the blindspots that I couldn’t see.
And one of the biggest things that I learned was that I was in more control of things than I thought. I put in the work, and now, I’m happier than I’ve ever been as a wife.
And once I elevated my own wife life, I decided that I would help other wives (so you don't struggle like I did). Let me support you. Let me be your guide. No wife left behind!
I even learned how to use my wife personality type to help my hubby, help me. 👍🏾 And I want these strategies to be yours, too.
Wifey, you are not alone!
Join me and other like-minded wives in the Happy Wife Collective!
Here’s What Wives Are Saying About This Program:
(names have been abbreviated for anonymity.)
A.U., Columbus, Ohio
I thoroughly enjoyed the DNA of a Happy Wife program. Teleshia is a very authentic, down to earth, transparent teacher. Since taking her course and listening to her live video sessions, I have learned ways to implement the strategies she gives in my marriage. One of the things that really stands out to me is creating a safe word for those moments when there is a difference of opinion, I never thought to have something like that, but it has proven to be really helpful. I would encourage all wives to actively participate in all her courses, workshops and live video sessions.
T.B., Fayetteville, North Carolina
B.J., Virginia Beach, Virginia
Even after being married 19 years, I learned so much. Really appreciated the assessment. It is absolutely worth the investment.
A.A., Baltimore, Maryland
As a new wife-to-be everything shared was a little nugget of inspiration and guidance as I start this new journey.
K.T., Alexandria, Virginia
Teleshia was a very good facilitator. She is genuine and has proven expertise to lead the group.
T.P., Bowie, Maryland
Program Highlights
This 6-month comprehensive online program for wives (and wives-to-be) includes:
- Training on the DNA of a Happy Wife® Protocol:
- Break the generational cycle of dysfunctional marriages
- Reduce your headache and your heartache so you don't lose your mind or your marriage in the process
- Take care of the woman in you so you don't lose yourself and get the support you need
- Get clarity on how to speak your truth (in a way in which he really hears you)
- Get the courage to cool down heated arguments and maintain your peace of mind
- Get the confidence to create emotional and physical intimacy and grow closer to your spouse
- Vow 1: Prioritize Your Self-Care
- Vow 2: Establish Your Expectations
- Vow 3: Fine-Tune Your Friendship
- Vow 4: Communicate for Deeper Connection
- Vow 5: Fix the Friction
- Vow 6: Tighten the Trust
- Vow 7: Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Vow 8: Finesse Your Finances
- LoversBond Hub where you'll get your VIP Plus login information and virtual access to the materials
- Live Q&A Sessions for laser-focused coaching on the spot to help you with your specific situation
- On-Demand Recordings of all sessions to watch (and re-watch) at your convenience (so no worries if you miss a live session)
- Pre- and Post-Assessment to assess your Happy Wife Proficiency
- LoveWork Exercises that you will implement immediately to get the results you're looking for
- LoversBond® Library, a curated list of recommended books to read for deeper learning and extra reinforcement
- Happy Wife Collective, access to a community of like-minded wives to share your success, challenges, and insights so you can thrive as a happy wife in a happy marriage
- LoversBond® Journal, to capture your notes, your wins, your lessons learned, and your memories
Plus, depending upon when you enroll, you may be eligible for these fast-action bonuses!
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 1: One-on-One Private Coaching Session
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 2: WifeKit filled with self-care goodies, conversation starters, and intimacy igniters
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 3: One regular ticket to the next DNA of a Happy Wife® Empowerment Event
Questions Smart Wives Like You Asked Before Joining Us:
Yes. In my 20 years of being a wife and my 5 years being a wife coach, I have learned and experienced what a happy wife looks like. With the tools and techniques I share in this program, you will discover the strategies so you can be a happier wife too! I cannot do the work for you, but I will certainly put the tools in your hand and give you the power to elevate your wife life.
This 6-month comprehensive online program for wives and wives-to-be includes:
- Training on the DNA of a Happy Wife® Protocol:
- Break the generational cycle of dysfunctional marriages
- Reduce your headache and your heartache so you don't lose your mind or your marriage in the process
- Take care of the woman in you so you don't lose yourself and get the support you need
- Get clarity on how to speak your truth (in a way in which he really hears you)
- Get the courage to cool down heated arguments and maintain your peace of mind
- Get the confidence to create emotional and physical intimacy and grow closer to your spouse
- Vow 1: Prioritize Your Self-Care
- Vow 2: Establish Your Expectations
- Vow 3: Fine-Tune Your Friendship
- Vow 4: Communicate for Deeper Connection
- Vow 5: Fix the Friction
- Vow 6: Tighten the Trust
- Vow 7: Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Vow 8: Finesse Your Finances
- LoversBond Hub where you'll get your VIP Plus login information and virtual access to the materials
- Live Q&A Sessions for laser-focused coaching on the spot to help you with your specific situation
- On-Demand Recordings of all sessions to watch (and re-watch) at your convenience (so no worries if you miss a live session)
- Pre- and Post-Assessment to assess your Happy Wife Proficiency
- LoveWork Exercises that you will implement immediately to get the results you're looking for
- LoversBond® Library, a curated list of recommended books to read for deeper learning and extra reinforcement
- Happy Wife Collective, access to a community of like-minded wives to share your success, challenges, and insights so you can thrive as a happy wife in a happy marriage
- LoversBond® Journal, to capture your notes, your wins, your lessons learned, and your memories
Plus, depending upon when you enroll, you may be eligible for these fast-action bonuses!
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 1: One-on-One Private Coaching Session
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 2: WifeKit filled with self-care goodies, conversation starters, and intimacy igniters
- FAST-ACTION BONUS 3: One regular ticket to the next DNA of a Happy Wife® Empowerment Event
Yes. This program is for wives and wives-to-be so if you are engaged, you can enroll in this program too. And I might add that this is a very mature decision you're making to be proactive in securing your happiness as a wife.
Once you register for the program, you will get IMMEDIATE access to the LoversBond Hub right away. You will use your email address as your login and establish your password.
There is some pre-work in the LoversBond Hub to welcome you to the program and get you started on this wonderful journey until our first live session.
The program is 6 months.
By setting this pace, this gives us adequate time going through each of the 8 vows of the DNA of a Happy Wife® Framework in detail. This timing also allows you time to implement the LoveWork Exercises, and to ask questions if you need further insights and strategies for proper implementation - all without getting overwhelmed.
If you think that 6 months is too long, I would ask you to reset your mindset. If you really think about how long you have been a wife and how much longer you plan on being a wife, 6 months is a very small amount of time in comparison to elevate your wife life so you can get the peace and passion you need to be a happy wife.
This program is not for the following wives:
- If you think that your spouse will do everything your way to make you happy.
- If you are not willing to make an investment of your time, your effort, and your resources to understand what it means to be a happy wife and work towards leveling up your happiness.
- If you suffer from physical, substance, emotional, or sexual abuse, or if you have a mental illness. Please see a qualified licensed professional immediately.